Do you treat your car better than you treat your body?

Hidden under the veil of our designer clothes, just beneath the surface of our skin exists our true bodies – in all its muscular, skeletal and natural glory. This is what we truly are – an elaborate and complex human organism whose sheer survival depends on its ability to whether the demands of life.

The importance of strengthening it, taking care of it, and constructing it soundly becomes brutally clear when we peel back the layers of clothes and skin that hide this reality from our day to day eyes.

A car is a perfect metaphor for the human body. A car has a frame – we have a skeleton.  Where a car has wheels, we have muscles. A car runs on fuel, without food – we cannot function. Above all – the condition of a car depends on its driver – just as our bodies’ health depends on how we choose to drive it.

The next time you drive by a fast food drive through – observe the condition and price tag of the cars line –then contrast that with the choices that there drivers are likely making in terms of the quality of food they are about to put in themselves.

*** To see the picture – click on the link

Ingredients for a do-it yourself training program

 

Do you feel that you are not getting the physical, performance or aesthetic results you want despite all the time and effort you spend in the gym? Well one big reason could be that you are not training smartly. In fact you may not even be training at all – you might just be exercising – simply doing physical activity – but not actually training. The big difference between the two is the thought and planning that goes into it.

Long blog short – here are 6 things you can do to design a program for yourself that will allow you to TRAIN smartly.

  1. Decide on a specific goal
  2. Think progressive overload
  3. Think S.A.I.D – specific adaptations to imposed demands
  4. Core centered training
  5. Movement based training
  6. Think flexibility and stability, then muscular endurance, then strength, then power.

 

Body fat undercover – what body fat really looks like!!

The most anyone ever sees of the insides of their body are the skeletons that come out of the closet for Halloween. Well – this photo shows you an eyeful of what excess body fat looks like an a human being.

**If you can’t see the picture – click on the link to the blog itself.

Adjust what you see on your plate to reflect your weight goals.

The next time you have a meal, take a look at what its composition is. If you want to healthily lose weight – then what you see should look like a whole lot of fruits and veggies, some protein and a wee bit of whole grains. If you want to healthily gain weight (yeah, some people actually do!) – then – the picture will be more of an even split amongst the fruits and veggies, whole grains, and proteins. If this is not what you see at chow time – then chances are you won’t reach your goal.

Get the picture… no pun intended.

***Note: Healthy fats are an important part of a balanced diet – they are not shown here as this diagram is meant to represent a visual of what your plates composition should look like.

If you’re not uncomfortable – you are not growing

S.A.I.D is an acronym for Specific Adaptations to Imposed Demands – a principle that is widely accepted in the physical fitness field. In the context of physical change S.A.I.D suggests that the human body will only adapt to the specific stresses that are placed on it. Furthermore once the body adapts to that stress – which it inevitably will – the same degree of stimulus will no longer be adequate to elicit further adaptations. For that to occur – a greater degree of stress or stimulus must now be applied.

For example – as a novice weight trainer you go to the gym and everyday you choose to squat 100 pounds for ten repetitions – initially you will see some strength gains – however – in a relatively brief period of time you will cease to get stronger from lifting that weight at that repetition number. To get stronger – you would need to increase a variable such as the weight or repetitions.

Given this idea – think about the act of sitting. Most people spend almost 60-80% of the day in a variation of this position. Envision a person positioned in a chair – sitting upright in the fetal position. Think about it – essentially we are sitting when we are at work, at meals, watching TV or surfing the net, driving to work, and for some even sleeping in the fetal position. So if we put our body in this position all the time – it is no surprise that most people have back issues, tight hips and neck problems.

This principle is just as true in life as it is in physical development. If a child reads a book everyday for a full year – they become a good reader, however not necessarily a good thinker. To become a good thinker – one needs to practice thinking just as to become a cook – one must practice cooking. In each case however – whether it is thinking, reading or cooking – if an individual does not increase the stimulus or the difficulty – then they will reach a point where they ultimately stagnate.

My thinking is that – based on the S.A.I.D principle – it is imperative that we as individuals carefully analyze our daily actions, behaviors and practices to make sure that we are developing the appropriate ones – and also that we are gradually increasing the difficulty of each – in other words – if you are not uncomfortable – you are probably not growing.

The Tao of me: A personal code of conduct

The more you are as a person – the less the opinions of others matter” – Muhammad Ali

For the last 10 years of my life I have struggled to find a sense of identity. I felt that what I did professionally, the status I held, and ultimately the amount of money I made would help me carve out a place in society.

Fortunately – I was awakened to the fact that my efforts were wholly misguided – and that true identity is in fact one that is self-created and self-managed – where I live by my own well thought out beliefs – opposed to trying to somehow fit into existing conventions.

In metaphor – it is essentially building my own ship, building my own compass, and charting my own course.

To build a good ship – one needs to be disciplined in training the body, mind and spirit. To chart my own course – I need only reflect and set goals. The hardest part – is creating and staying true to the compass.

So I developed a compass to guide me– which I call “my way” or “my Tao” as the word Tao means the way,  the path, or the method. “My way” consists of 23 principles that I reflect on everyday and do my best to follow. They help keep me stay on course in order to live and achieve my goals.

  1. Be self-reliant and self-led
  2. Be disciplined
  3. Seek out novel and new experiences
  4. Nurture my network
  5. Make the lives of those around me better
  6. Live by the 7 Samurai virtues
    1. Kennin: Indomitable spirit
    2. Shinnen: self-belief
    3. Shincho: discipline in daily life
    4. Seigi: Moral and ethical uprightness
    5. Sessei: Maintian honor of family
    6. Jizen: Benevolence
    7. Kibo: Have hope
  7. Be and set the example
  8. See things differently – look at them differently
  9. Be frugal and fiscally responsible
  10. Question Convention
  11. Take the initiative
  12. Say what I need to say to those I love before they are gone
  13. Enjoy the day, appreciate work, be grateful for freedom
  14. Look to improve my situation
  15. Ask questions – find out what I need to know or need clarified
  16. Never cease training and learning – surpass today what you were yesterday
  17. Develop the mind
  18. Do what needs to be done today
  19. Remember that time is precious.
  20. Groom well
  21. Exercise Vigorously
  22. Eat clean and hydrate well
  23. Sleep well

Perspective: Meditations at 30,000 feet

It is amazing how much a change in perspective can affect the way one thinks. Yesterday – as I sat in my cramped economy class seat – gazing out the window at the disappearing city below me – I was struck with a sense of how insignificant I am in the whole scheme of life.

Most of my days – I – like most people – find myself at street level – approaching and living life through the lens of an individual in a small pond – the world around my immediate vicinity seemingly so very important and immediate. However – as the plane which was taking me home from San Francisco – gradually rose higher and higher – that perspective dramatically changed – everything that seemed at one time to be so large and so real – became like small ants in the distance. Seeing that we humans – from a different perspective high above the clouds can seem not unlike a large sprawling colony of ants – caused me pause to consider how important my goals were – how important my human desire to be remembered, have an impact, make the world a better place were.

I further pondered what effect my actions  have in the grand scheme of things – given that what I saw out the window – was merely one group of ants, in one county, in one state, in one country on a huge planet which is home to  thousands of such grouping.

What dawned on me was the idea that – despite the sobering reality that our individual actions and accomplishments will probably not affect great influence in the world or last over time – it is our responsibility  - not necessarily to worry about individual fame and greatness as they are fleeting – but to each simply conduct our lives – more so the journey of our lives – to the best of our ability – and thus leave our mark as a generation – as a sum of all our individual best lived lives.

This thought – or epiphany -reminded me of the idea that life is not about what we necessarily achieve – but more so how we conduct our lives everyday.

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